The Betty Ford Center has moved Lindsay Lohan ‘leave me alone’ Lohan to a secret location – at least they are not revealing where Lindsay is being housed. Why you ask – well there seem to be 2 reasons. Firstly, Lindsay and other Lohan’s have been plagued by a terror-text stalker or stalkers sending nasty messages over cell phones so that the center feels it safer to keep her whereabouts secret. But the bigger reason is that Lindsay had a clash with an employee at the treatment facility.
Over a week ago poor Lindsay was 10 minutes late for her curfew – apparently she was at a party with plenty of alcohol hosted by her 2 roommates at Betty Ford. So when she arrived back at the center a technician reprimanded her and insisted she undergo a drug and alcohol test – which she passed!
So now there is a big conflict between Lindsay and the employee and since Lindsay is the ultimate celebrity Betty Ford caters to her like she was the Queen of England and moved her – so she doesn’t have to see the offending employee who of course was just doing their job.
Here is a wake up call for Lindsay and Betty Ford – conflict is the single biggest trigger for substance abuse relapse – so moving Lindsay when she was in the wrong, coming late for curfew and then being forced to take tests, sends all the wrong messages to Ms. Lohan. It tells her that she can have her own way all of the time and that instead of resolving conflict or at least learning how to do so, all she has to do is stamp her feet and things will be corrected to her satisfaction. Wrong – we see how well that method has served Lindsay so far in life. Without helping Lindsay acquire skills for dealing with life there is scant possibility of her staying clean if she ever gets out of rehab.