TLC 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days spoilers tease that there may be a new star emerging on the show. Every once in a while, someone crops up on the show in an unexpected way, and that’s just happened big time for a woman named Alex who appeared on last week’s episode of Before The 90 Days.
As viewers will remember, Ash Naeck got totally schooled by some of the participants in his relationship coaching seminar. He had taken his girlfriend Avery Warner to the seminar so that she could see him in action. Avery was interested in seeing how Ash responded to the single women who attended his relationship coaching classes.
Well, the women in Ash’s audience weren’t at all amused by Ash’s ridiculous description of the male and female brains. What Ash was saying seemed really sexist and didn’t really offer the women anything useful as they try to find a good match for themselves out in the dating world.
Alex spoke up pretty early on in the seminar, saying, “You talk a lot about men and women being very different. Do you recognize that we all have both inside of us, that we are both masculine and feminine?” Ash then gave a non-answer and started getting tongue-tied and had to go take a break.
In the confessional, Alex told the audience, “My impression of Ash is that he’s quite out of his depth, talking to us as if we don’t understand the brains of the man.” Well, Ash finally came back from break and started talking about love languages, which started ok but then devolved in to a lecture on how women needed to understand the man’s “language.”
Later, Ash commented on how happy our grandparents were back in the day, when the man went out and worked while the woman stayed in the home. “You think that’s what we should be doing now?” Alex asked. Ash insisted that’s not what he was saying, but then he started talking about how women weren’t naturally masculine, and that opposites attracted.
Ash went on, saying that “passion is difference” but Alex said “No,” saying that she had been with a partner who was similar to her and that they were still compatible. Ash then said, “No,” and Alex replied dryly that Ash’s perspective was “interesting.”
Well, recently Alex made a short video on her Instagram Stories that was uploaded to Reddit, in which she acknowledged that she was the woman at the seminar who made Ash squirm. In the video, Alex said, “Ok, I need to explain what happened with this 90 Day Fiance thing. So a couple of months ago my friend Hannah and I went to this seminar by this guy called Ash who calls himself a relationship coach.”
Alex continued: “We were like oh, this will be interesting…we just went and it ended up being recorded on a program called 90 Day Fiance, and it aired a couple days ago, and you can watch it, and I get very passionate, maybe too much, but, I don’t know, I feel like I was kind of outspoken.”
Alex then addressed rumors that she was a paid actress for the show: “People keep thinking that I was a paid actress for it, which is crazy…no, no, no, I’ve never acted in my &*@#$* life. But yeah, anyway, you can go watch it. I think in the next few days, because there’s been so many people asking me questions, I’m just going to do a Q&A type thing so I can just get it all out in one go instead of spending so long trying to explain to everybody on multiple platforms.”
Alex concluded: “Anyway you should watch it. It was a good time. It was an awkward time. I struggled so hard, but I got a good laugh out of it in the end.”
We should note that at this time, it looks like Alex is planning on doing her Q&A session on her Instagram account. Alex was originally thinking of doing Q&A on Reddit, but she posted a note there very recently saying, “You have so many good questions! Glad you all feel as passionately about it as I did…I’m going to be doing a Q&A on my Instagram page in the next few days to chat about it all, rather than spending hours trying to reply to a million of you on different sites.”
It should be interesting to see what Alex has to say when the Q&A happens. Check out Alex’s Instagram feed below if you’re interested in getting her updates about the session when it happens. We’ll be sure to keep you posted on what we learn in the Q&A! Stay tuned to 90 Day Fiance: Before The 90 Days and don’t forget that CDL is your place the hot new 90 Day Fiance news, updates, and spoilers!