Tonight on TLC their popular reality show 90 Day Fiancé: The Other Way airs with an all-new Sunday, April 30, 2023 episode and we have your 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way recap below for you.
On tonight’s 90 Day Fiance: The Other Way season 4 episode 13 “Winds Do Not Blow As the Ships Wish,” as per the TLC Synopsis,“Isabel goes head-to-head with Gabe’s sister. Yohan embarrasses Daniele in front of her ex. Rishi gets blindsided. Mahmoud contemplates Nicole’s desire to leave Egypt. Oussama breaks Debbie’s heart.”
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In tonight’s 90 Day Fiance episode, the men are living for the drama tonight. There was Gabe. Gabe was back in Colombia. He left to go visit his family because he wanted to them in person that he was getting married. He was hoping they would take it well and that’s not exactly what happened.
His family didn’t like the idea of moving permanently to Colombia. They thought his relationship with Isabel was a phase. His sister especially was concerned for him. And she thought she had every right to be because Gabe has been feeding her stories.
The family had a few misconceptions about Isabel because Gabe paints her as a villain. He once told them it was Isabel that was manipulative. Only he likes talking out of the side of his mouth this one.
He would paint Isabel one way to his family. He would also paint his family as the manipulators when he was talking to Isabel. It was like the men needed to vent to someone, but he’s been choosing the wrong people to do it to. There was no reason for him to come back to Colombia and tell Isabel that his sister wants a prenup.
Monica only wants a prenup because of something he said. He also never fails to paint himself as a victim whether it being from a manipulative family or a manipulative fiancé.
He claims he doesn’t like getting caught in the middle, but that man lives for drama. He’s been stirring the pot on both sides of the equator. It’s as if he wanted to throw himself a pity party and kept inviting the wrong people to it. He told Isabel that he would never ask her to sign a prenup because they were in love and he trusts her only it didn’t stop him from planting the idea.
Jen was dealing with someone similar. She’s been strung along by her fiancé. Everyone in her life can see it. It’s just her that wants to believe in the best of him and so her loved ones decided to put him to the test.
They convinced Jen to stop using Rishi as a translator with his family. She didn’t know his family’s language and they didn’t know English. They all expected Rishi to translate because they wanted to believe he would explain things carefully. Only Rishi has been keeping secrets. He tells his family one thing and he tells his fiancé something else.
Hence Jen brought an official translator with her. Jen suspected that Rishi wasn’t being honest with her. He tells his family one thing and her another. He asks her to marry him. Then he has his family continue to look for a possible bride for him. He ultimately has to let down one side of the equation and so Jen wanted an idea of who it would be.
She brought along the translator to Rishi’s home. She talked with his family via the translator. She found out that he has been turning down all the women they try to match him up with.
Rishi was telling the truth about that if nothing else. He told his fiancé that he would break it to his family in two months to stop looking. He would then wait a while before telling them that Jen was more than just a friend. He has this whole plan. Jen was making sure he stuck to it while Debbie learns a very heartbreaking truth.
She thought she was moving to Morocco to be with a man who loves her except he targeted her. He never loved her. Oussama admitted the only reason they got together was because he wanted to move to America.
Oussama wants a green card. He claims that he wants to join the artist community in America because they are more creative over there. He also told Debbie that he would end their relationship if she doesn’t bring him to America and so that just proves he was never in love with her. No one who loves her would do that to her.
The only thing he has going for him was that he was at least honest about his intentions. He didn’t string her along. He didn’t pretend in any way that he wants to stay in his home country when his goal was to target an American and then move to America.
Oussama was honest. Yohan not so much. It was clear that he wanted to move to America. It wasn’t in his plan at all to stay in the Dominican Republic because he once said everyone there wants to move to America and so his wife surprised him. If anything, she was the one that gaslit him. Daniele pretended that she had filed for him. She claimed she was getting a visa for him and then she just shows up in the Dominican Republic with all of her stuff. She said she couldn’t wait to live down there because she thought it would be a simpler life.
Not that she enjoys the simpler life. She doesn’t stay by his family because she hates dealing with the heat. She didn’t care for his business in the DR or how he ran it. She was now pushing things even further by continuing to talk to her ex. Daniele is someone who believes in staying friends with your ex. She knows Yohan doesn’t like it and she does it anyway because deep down she’s gotten used to treating him like a child with no opinion of his own. She forgets that Yohan was tolerating such behavior back when he thought it would get him a visa to America.
It’s no longer the case now. He’s free to say whatever he wants. Yohan was asserting himself more and more lately. Jen was trying to do the same, but that translator may have confessed a little too much to Rishi’s parents. She did so at the request of Jen’s friends. Bindiya told his parents that he was engaged. She told them that he gave Jen a ring. The parents were surprisingly pretty easy going about this whole thing. They told Jen via the translator that they were fine with the relationship. The only thing they were worried about was the language barrier. They wanted to be able to have a conversation with Jen one on one.
Jen was hoping to learn the language. She was already talking about their future with his parents. It was just Rishi that was the odd one out. He wasn’t as happy as the rest of them. Rishi didn’t like that Jen told his family about them. He got angry that she didn’t follow his plan. He also didn’t care for it when she told his parents that she wanted to move to Mumbai with Rishi. He thought she was pushing her luck and his parents did end up telling her that they wanted Rishi to stay with them. And so overall the meeting with the translator went better than anyone could hope for.
Rishi however didn’t care about how well things were going. He was angry at not being the one in control anymore and so Jen didn’t win as much as she thought she would. Rishi didn’t even want to talk to his parents about the situation. They were waiting to hear that he loves or that he can’t live without her. He was pretty much silent until they pushed him on the matter. The family admitted to him that they weren’t entirely sold on the idea of him marrying Jen. They said all the rights things when Jen was there. And once she was gone, they told him they would have to think about it.
It probably didn’t help that Rishi was barely defending the woman he loves. He kinda went silent as his mother ripped into Jen. She said she would embarrass them if they got married because all anyone would talk about was the age difference. It seems he had been right to doubt his family’s acceptance. They were against the idea. They said they might have considered it if Jen was closer to his age. They were finding a thousand things to say against her when she wasn’t there to defend herself. And poor Rishi broke down in tears because he knew that was the end of his relationship with Jen.
Yohan meanwhile made things very uncomfortable for Taylen. He first made things disgusting by talking about how Daniele loves a large penis. He quickly graduated to something more as he told Taylen he basically doesn’t trust his own wife around the other man. Daniele just had to push him into meeting with her ex. He told her and she kept pushing. And so he purposely set out to hurt her. It was childish of him to publicly embarrass her like that. She soon started to cry at the table when she heard how little Yohan trusts her.
She couldn’t understand why he would air their dirty laundry to a basic stranger and so she didn’t see that this was his little rebellion. He was still mad at her. He was still punishing her for not getting a visa for him. He was punishing her for a lot of things that went on in their marriage so far. And that could be one of the reasons why she keeps treating him like a child.
Over in Colombia, Gabe’s actions came back to bite him. His family flew down there to be with him at the wedding. The two sides ended up talking to each other. They both have a horrible idea of the other and it all came out at lunch. Gabe said he only said bad things about Isabel because that’s what Monica wanted him to say. Isabel then had to play peacemaker between him and his sister. And so she was the one that got caught in the middle of his drama, not him.
THE END!